Why do we smile?

 You can see it in the eyes, Not in smile :XD

"My Dutchenne/fake Smile"

             Yesterday i captured my self three times and the result is the pictures above, And with these pictures it made me ask my self the question why do i smile on camera? ,why people smile to other and why do i smile back when someone smile at me?. For now maybe you also ask the same question.

            As i have read there is only two possible smile that we human possess it is the Dutchenne smile and the Fake smile, and for these i do believe that the picture above of mine is the combination of a fake and real smile it captured the truth and lies in way that i tried very hard to be look happy through smiling on my lips but still it reveals the very real in me through my eyes. The other fact about my picture is that i want to expose and  image of mine  that every one may look into.

            To quote from Violletes "if the smile is not in the eyes, the smile in the lips means nothing" with this I then realize that being real is admiring than to be looking happy, so now lets be real don't try so hard to be look happy on pictures lets smile naturally and let our very soul be captured.

Lets go back to the question why do we smile to other?

         The very reason is we want to communicate with them, We want to create a connection to them because our smiles is the powerful gesture that we human possess.

there are 9 Reason for us to smile and why we need to smile:

1. Smiling makes us more attractive – People who smile seem more attractive than those who don’t smile. 

2. Smiling exudes positivity – When we see someone unhappy and depressed, sometimes words are not enough to soothe them. A smile often helps a lot to improve their outlook and their feeling that things will get better.

3. Smiling is infectious – Try smiling at people, and you will see them smiling back at you. There is a certain magic that fills the air when someone smiles at you. It somehow changes the mood of others around us.

4. Smiling reduces stress – Our emotions usually show on our faces, and when we are stressed or worried we often frown. Smiling helps uplift our spirits and allows us to look at the world in a positive way.

5. A smile can brighten another person’s day – Just like in my story above, smiling will often help brighten another person’s day. Just like words are a verbal gesture, a smile is a silent gesture that shows another person that we care.

6. Smiling can lift up our faces and make us look younger – As I mentioned in number four above, stress often shows on our faces. When we frown, there is a high probability that we will develop wrinkles and small lines on our faces that make us look older.

7. Smiling is a natural drug – Smiling releases endorphins and serotonin in our bodies which are known to help us feel good naturally.

8. Smiling denotes forgiveness and openness to forgive – When we have a spat with someone, or when we are not on good terms with someone, it is difficult to smile. A smile is gesture that signals to others that we are open to forgive and/or ask for forgiveness.

9. Smiling allows us to appear self-confident – People who smile usually have good reasons for doing so. They are more approachable and easy to deal with. People are drawn to them naturally.

 To quote a song from Annie (the musical)..."you're never fully dressed without a smile"

Quick last fact: Women smile more than Men, here is why

Here is something interesting. Researcher LaFrance concluded that overall women smile a lot more than men. This comes not just from the fact that they might be happier, but also, that socially, it is more acceptable for women to smile, she says. And it doesn’t stop there:

“In general women are more accurate than men in detecting what is really going on with someone by looking at their face and listening to their voice. Women are more likely to tell the difference between a felt and a fake smile.

FOR EVERYDAY !

                                 "SEIZED YOUR DAY BY FLASHING A REAL SMILE"

Share your reasons why you smile today by posting your comment box below Thanks ;)

Eid' Mubarak 2013

HAPPY Eid Mubarak to all Muslim around the universe :)

May ALLAH blessed us :)

What is Eid Mubarak?

       My board mates ask me the question above and there i ask my self did i really know the correct answers of this question? i'm kinda not in a mood to explain what i know about Eid mubarak and why Eid mubarak must be celebrate. So what i did is i just answer them that we will thank ALLAH for everything XD.

Will here i'am now I will answer the question as far as i can through what i have learned and what Mr.Google can help.

 First: lets now know the meaning of the Eid Mubarak.
             Eid Mubarak means "Have a blissful festival." It is a greeting among Muslim about to congratulate each other in finishing the Holy month which is the Ramadan.

Second: Why we celebrate it?

Just click the URL below.
     http://www.tolueislam.org/Parwez/articles/why_do_we_celebrate_eid.htm

(it will only took you about 4 to 5minutes.please read...Don't be lazy if you really wanna know!  )

Third: things a Muslim must do before the Holy Eid.
       
        First she/he must give her FITRA. Fitra means "charity" every Muslim should give a fitra to the poor or to the elderly.
                       

                        WHAT I DID IN THE DAY OF Eid' Mubarak 2013 :D

August 08, 2013

            I woke up prior to my alarm clock because of the call of my landlady, She called me through mobule to wake me up for she know that i need to praper food for the day fasting. I was unhappy today because i celebrated Eid'alone. what i mean alone is without my family. i have two exam that day :)

I even posted some to do list for that day in my Fb :D

For today:

9:30am to 10:30 (make my two insights in Educ 26.1 while reviewing some of the topics)
10:30 to 11: 30 ( Should make/answer my fs 4 fortfolio 2 and 3)
11:30 t0 12:15 ( must at bhouse already to pray)
12: 15 to 2:30 (attend the urgent metting of oroville home owners)
2:30 to 3:00 (must comeback in bhouse again to pray)
3:15 to 4:30 (study for my educ 26.1 exam and educ 25.1)
4:50 to 5:50 ( must in xu to attend exam)
-----pray---
6pm (exam in educ 25.1)

‪#‎bismillah‬. — feeling determined.

The very first fictional story i wrote :D

"THE SECOND CHANCE"

           I knew my self as a good looking man, some had called me handsome. But despite of physical advantage that I am blessed with, I have nothing to attract a charming jeweler and make her forget the past.

           Its early morning mist, I watched her walked inside her jewelry shop. She’s wearing faded jeans with white blouse folded up to her forearms, I desperately wanted to see her closely, and I’m burning in desire to touch her rosy cheeks. I missed her so much. But I knew that my change of romance with her couldn’t help, it’s impossible, hopeless.

           I closed the window of my car and leaned peacefully where I’m seating.

           “It was two years ago, and I knew it is the day where all woman in the world dream about. It was our wedding day. Everything is settled. The ceremony started when she walked in the aisle towards me. Our family, relatives and important friends were there. They were smiling and I saw their happy face looking at my future wife. I felt nervous and started to ask if I’m really ready for the marriage which was about to start. Looking at my future wife, nervousness had slowly seized me. I couldn't even help my self from sweating, my hands is cold. The priest spoke “Peter Parker do you take Yumie as your wife, for richer or poorer and in sickness and in health everyone waited for my answer, there was deafening silence. I couldn't.  It seemed like I was petrified and words wont come out to my mouth. Seconds after, the priest repeated his question. This time, I have decided. I haven’t thought of anything, of the consequences, of other people judgment. “Come what may” I spoke to myself. Yumie’s eyes gazed at me confusedly. The priest seemed to be impatient now. I heard the people at my back murmuring. And so I did the biggest mistake of being a man. I ran without looking back. I reached the church entrance and went running until I couldn't see even a glimpse of them.”

              I turned to the closed window of my car where I could see the jewelry shop of Yumie and I wished that she will gave me another chance tomorrow. I sigh; I revive the engine of my car and drove back home.

Next day!

              It’s her birthday today and I already talked to Leah, her assistant about my planned this evening.

            Everything is in the right place, the entire shop is scattered with petals, and the jewelries are pinned to their places. The red carpet in the entrance is extended up to the table, where there’s a three cute shaped heart candles which is enough to light the entire table.

           I had Leah at 7’o’clock in the evening to call Yumie and tell to her that she was in the jewelry shop and she needed help.

            I’m wearing a black suit, that I know helped my skin to be lighten, I stand up next to the table, I pray hard and begged to almighty god, that Yumie will give me a chance.  One chance to prove her how much I love her that I regret every single day of the day since I left her at the church without looking back. I knew I gave her so much pain to her heart, but tonight I’m totally motivated to have her back again, I don't want to regret in my whole life, I’ll beg for her.

          I saw her walking to the entrance with the help of the light outside. I felt nervous as I heard her voice and called Leah. She could see the candles on the table. The next thing I heard is her steps coming forward to me. She stopped as the light in the center turned on. I had Leah to turn it on.

         I saw Yumie near enough for me to see how her emotions affect her when she saw me. I can’t really identify specifically what kind of emotion she’s having right now.

         She’s wearing a purple cocktail dress that made her more gorgeous as ever, I walked the distance between us, while our eyes locked to each other, I hugged her and whisper to her that I badly, madly, truly, deeply and desperately missed her so much. Seconds when she doesn’t even hug me back, she walked to the table and sipped the wine from the glass. I followed her and tell her “HAPPY BIRTHDAY” I offer her a seat and I’m so thankful that she accepts it. She smirked at me and sits.

          I don’t know if it’s a sign of loss or a chance to prove to her myself again. I also sit on my chair. And handed her the bouquet of mixed white and red roses, she accepted the bouquet and say thank you. I started my words. “First of all, I’m sorry. I was not there, when you needed me most. You don’t know how I wanted to hug you and wipe your tears away when your parents had a plane crashed that made them leave you alone. I’m sorry but please I swear to god I won’t leave you anymore please forgive me. I regretted every single seconds I breathe because I’m not with you." Yumie just stared at me with mixed emotions drawn to her face and eyes. She did not answer me. I walked to her chair and kneel down to her and grabbed her hands and kissed them. I cleared my throat and spoke again; I get the ring to my pocket and asked her, "WILL YOU MARRY ME?" Seconds after she don’t answer me again but command me to stand up instead. “I won’t stand up her not until you’ll say yes to me” I said. My eyes started to watered I felt no hope but no I won’t lose hope I’ll beg for her. "Please Yumie owner of this Jewelry shop, the beautiful gem of my eyes say yes and agreed to marry me in all the church in the world.” I stated again.

        “You fool” she said. Her eyes also watered with tears and I wipe them immediately still kneeling. “Just say yes” I said “For heaven sake shut up Peter and get up” she help helped me to stand up and hugged me and whisper “ Yes I will marry You Peter Parker” I hugged her tightly and made my self satisfied. I missed her so much, and if I die tonight I won’t bring any regret to my grave.

The End :)                                                                                                                                                                                                 - Mushiimoo17th<3